note to self

Take care not to:
talk too much
talk too fast
talk without being asked to
talk gratuitously
talk with your hands
talk about worldly affairs
talk back rudely
argue
smile condescendingly at others’ words
use elegant expressions
boast
avoid speaking directly
speak with a knowing air
jump from topic to topic
use fancy words
speak of past events that cannot be changed
speak like a pedant
avoid direct questions
speak ill of others
speak grandly of enlightenment
carry on while drunk
speak in an obnoxious manner
yell at children
make up fantastic stories
speak while angry
name-drop
ignore the people to whom you are speaking
speak sanctimoniously of gods and buddhas
use sugary speech
use flattering speech
speak of things of which you have no knowledge
monopolize the conversation
talk about others behind their backs
speak with conceit
bad-mouth others
chant prayers ostentatiously
complain about the amount of alms
give long-winded sermons
speak affectedly like an artist
speak affectedly like a tea master

 

Ryokan

 

do not waste even a minute of time

alisa perebyinis, gone from this world at 9

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The days

and months go by like

lightning: we should value the time.

We pass from life to death in the time it takes to

breathe in and breathe out: it’s hard to guarantee even

a morning and an evening. Whether walking,

standing, sitting, or lying down,

do not waste even a

minute of

time.

 

Put

down your myriad

of concerns and wake up.

At the end of the road it’s like an iron wall.

False thoughts are all extinguished, and extinguishing is

wiped away. Body and mind seem to be resting  on

the void. In the stillness a light reaches

everywhere with its

brilliance.

 

T’aego