the aristocracy of the heart

collect and keep happy experiences

 

Tawazu’ in Sufic terms

means something more than hospitality.

It is laying before one’s friend willingly what one has,

in other words sharing with one’s friend all the

good one has in life, and with it,

enjoying life better.

 

When this tendency

to tawazu’ is developed, things that

give one joy and pleasure become more enjoyable by

sharing with another. This tendency comes from the aristocracy

of the heart. It is generosity and even more than generosity. For the

limit of generosity is to see another pleased in his pleasure,

but to share one’s own pleasure with another is greater

than generosity. It is a quality which is foreign

to a selfish person, and the one who

shows this quality is on the

path of saintliness.

 

Hazrat Inayat Khan

 

eventually we have to taste to know

grow a pistachio tree

 

Bahauddin’s notebook,

and Rumi’s poetry, are reminders of experience,

larger and deeper ways we readers and listeners might live.

The words describe a taste of grandeur and love, and as they keep

telling us, you cannot do that: it’s impossible to describe such

wonders. The great winetasters may come as close as one

can get. But try to tell me, really, about a pistachio,

or something you have never tasted. Say what

you want, eventually we have

to taste to know.

 

Coleman Barks

commentary on The Drowned Book

 

let your eyes get clear enough

inside the presence

 

Having anxieties and feeling sad

about being alive is like piling black mud

and garbage on your head. The mud slides over

your eyes and the rubbish infects them. You can’t

see and you get sick. Everyone does this at some

time. Try to stop doing it. Let your eyes get

clear enough to see the beauty

around you.

 

O giver of worriedness and grief,

remove me from my being. Give me the peace

of not-being. This prayer, if you can pray it, will wash

the mud off your head. There is a beloved who pours muddy

water over the head of the lover, and there is a lover who

says, I cannot see you with my eyes, but the drops

of muddy water on my eyelashes are filled

with the rose of your face.

 

Bahauddin, father of Rumi

The Drowned Book