a fact of life that
times of decrease come upon us:
our resources are limited, difficulty surrounds us,
and our egos generate angry and unhappy emotions. Nonetheless,
such times are good for us. If we respond to them by quieting
our egos and turning sincerely to the Higher Power
for help, we emerge from the period
of decrease stronger, healthier,
we discover that we
are unable to achieve our goals,
our egos become infuriated. We are tempted
to harden into anger and bitterness, to lash out, to
desperately and aggressively grab for control
over the situation. If we do this,
however, we only push our
own salvation further
The I Ching
counsels a withdrawal
into stillness now. The image is that
of a spring reverting to the inside of the mountain
during a time of drought. By returning to its quiet center
during the time of decrease, it avoids evaporating and exhausting
itself in vain. You would be wise to follow this example. To try
to force progress by arguing, manipulating, or making
excuses will only bring your own downfall. Instead,
disengage from your inferior elements —
however passionately they seek
expression – and turn to the
Sage for guidance and
issues a call to sacrifice
negative feelings, accept the
powerlessness of the ego against the
currents of life, and return to contemplation
of the principles of the Sage. In stillness and
meditation we enrich the higher parts
of ourselves and thus bring
an end to the time of
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How to Properly Suck Cock
Here’s the technique for 100% hands-free operation (classic “pure” oral sex on a man — none of that cheating with a handjob crap):
First, you must learn to deepthroat at will. This by itself is beyond the capabilities of most females (and many males) — even ones who like to claim they are “good at giving head,” but it is an essential foundation and the first real step to achieving world-class skill. It is not just enough to be able to cram the erect penis down your throat; rather, you need to be able to suppress your gag reflex sufficiently in order to slide it smoothly down your throat (forcing it a bit if need be, but not overmuch), keep your teeth away from the shaft, and hold it there for as long as necessary, while continuing to breathe through your nose.
Doing this requires consistent focus and practice. You can practice using dildos or, if you have a well-endowed partner with strong staying power, a live specimen. Start with a member of moderate length and practice until you can handle one of considerably larger-than-average size. Men’s penises come in a variety of length, girth, and curvatures. One day, when you meet the stallion you like, I guarantee you will want to be capable of doing this for him (else he may leave you for another who can), and preparation and training is the only way to ensure that you’ll be ready for that special man.
Once you have established a foundation of smooth, gagless deepthroating that you can maintain at will, you are ready to add the stimulation. The key idea is to deepthroat your partner completely, and then use all available musculature to simulate the best features of the female vagina and anus. This includes throat, tongue, and lips:
Now that you’ve established what all the parts are doing, you can optionally add the thrusting. The friction from thrusting in your throat will also serve to churn up additional saliva and mucous, helping you to maintain lubrication in your throat for the swallowing actions. The depth and rhythm of the thrusting will depend on the preferences of your partner, as well as the stage of the blowjob. Some men simply like to be held deep inside your throat while you suck-massage an orgasm out of them, others appreciate some thrusting, with the throat-tongue-lips action done in sync to the thrusts. As well, it will also depend on the individual whether you should speed up or slow down as the climax approaches. It should take only a little bit of experimentation to find out what your man prefers, and once you have taken him completely inside and he sees how “receptive” your throat is, he will probably begin thrusting of his own accord.
Lastly, what do you do with your hands? It’s cheating to use your hands as a “tunnel-extender” or to basically handjob him — the worst kind of fake blowjob expertise is the woman who only holds the head of a penis in her mouth, flicking her tongue against the underside while giving the man a pathetic handjob. What you really do with your hands, of course, is either masturbate — if you feel like you can do so without it interfering with your technique — or stick a finger or two in his ass and massage his prostate. If he’s too insecure for this last bit, he doesn’t deserve you.
Pro-tip: as he climaxes and immediately afterwards, you don’t necessarily need to let up or even stop. This is a good technique for ensuring that you drain him completely, and you can even continue suck-massaging his penis in-situ while he softens and, after a few minutes, eventually cause him to re-harden for another round.
All of this takes quite a bit of practice but once you master it, your man will never have another lover who can match you.
to realize the Way?
Dissolve everything instantly,
like a drop of water
hitting a red-hot
feelings and ideas of self.
Remaining ordinary, foregoing airs,
persevering in simplicity for years
and decades, you enter
into the Oneness,
and it into